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Dear Eliza, Lately, I’ve been grappling with persistent anxiety that has lasted for several months. Strangely, I can’t pinpoint any major stressors in my life. Despite my efforts like regular workouts and attending yoga classes, this anxiety doesn’t seem to go away. I’m contemplating whether I should consider therapy. How can I determine if therapy is necessary, or if this is just a phase that will pass with time? Am I possibly overthinking the situation?

Letter from Eliza:

Hi there,

I want to start by saying that you’re not alone. Anxiety can be an unwelcome companion, and its persistence, especially when no obvious stressors are present, can be baffling and distressing. However, it’s extremely important to understand the complexities of anxiety, when it might be time to consider therapy, and how to make that decision with clarity and confidence.

Understanding Unexplained Anxiety

Anxiety is a natural response to stress, but when it lingers without apparent cause, it can become overwhelming. This unexplained anxiety can affect various aspects of your life, including your physical and emotional well-being.

Signs It Might Be Time for Therapy

  1. Duration and Frequency – If your anxiety has persisted for several months and occurs frequently, it’s a sign that it might be more than a passing phase.
  2. Interference with Daily Life – When anxiety begins to interfere with your daily activities, relationships, work, or overall quality of life, it’s a clear indication that professional help might be beneficial.
  3. Physical Symptoms – If you’re experiencing physical symptoms like chronic tension, insomnia, digestive issues, or headaches due to anxiety, it’s a sign that your body is struggling to cope and professional help could definitely help you.
  4. Social Isolation – Withdrawal from social activities or the avoidance of situations due to anxiety can indicate a need for intervention.
  5. Decline in Mental Health – If your anxiety is accompanied by other mental health issues like depression, panic attacks, or obsessive-compulsive behaviors, therapy becomes increasingly important.

Making the Decision

Deciding to seek therapy is a personal choice, but here are some considerations that might help you make an informed decision:

  1. Talk to a Professional – Consulting a mental health professional can provide valuable insights. They can assess your situation and recommend appropriate treatment options.
  2. Self-Assessment – Reflect on your anxiety’s impact on your life. Consider how it affects your daily functioning, relationships, and overall happiness.
  3. Evaluate Coping Strategies – Review the effectiveness of your current coping strategies, like exercise and yoga. If they’re not alleviating your anxiety, it may be time to explore additional options.
  4. Normalize Seeking Help – Remember that seeking therapy is not a sign of weakness; it’s a courageous step toward better mental health.

Persistent, unexplained anxiety is a challenge that many individuals face. It’s essential to recognize that therapy is a valuable resource for managing and overcoming anxiety, especially when it significantly affects your life. Trust your instincts, listen to your body, and reach out for help if you believe it’s necessary. A qualified therapist can offer guidance, coping strategies, and a safe space for exploring the root causes of your anxiety.

Your well-being matters, and taking the initiative to seek support is a significant stride towards a more fulfilling, anxiety-free life.

With empathy and encouragement,

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